Thursday, 19 February 2009

A Vulture Molests our Children: The Discovery of a Paedophilia Ring stab the Hearts of Maldivians

In the past few years we have seen the emergence of democracy in this nation and we have seen political parties battle for power , we have seen street demonstrations and voices, silenced for generations, speak up for their rights. Yet, amidst all this we failed to see this one man, who was sitting in the heart of Maldives, abusing the most vulnerable and helpless children of our nation.
Bang on, he knew what the kids wanted, how to approach them and also how to keep it a secret for years. He dared to take advantage of a society whose social fabric was decaying. This man was abusing children as young as 10, possibly for years by ‘enticing them with money, video-games and alcohol’ and no one had a clue until now. The investigation of another crime led to something even more sinister.

So many questions are on our minds at this juncture. Who are these kids? Where were their parents? Were they not in school? Why is it that these kids did not speak up all these years? Was there no one they could take into confidence and disclose?Perhaps many people would like to know these answers, because these are just some of the questions that are chuckling at our conscience right now. But my question is, “Are we really surprised that things have come to this?”

Just for a moment, let us imagine the condition of many homes in Male’. How safe are they from vultures such as this man? Have you ever wondered about the number of kids who do not have enough living space inside their homes, that after returning from school, they are forced to spend the rest of the day playing on the streets?
Further, this is a society so greatly divided between the rich and poor, the gaps between the two are subtle but apparent. Some kids have Nintendo DS, Wii and PS3 play stations etc; and there are others whose parents slog between 2 or 3 jobs just to afford shelter and food for their kids.

And these kids are out on the streets, alone while the parents struggle between jobs. Perhaps, for many parents it is not possible to buy them those little goodies and gifts children often crave to have. So, this man had the audacity to identify vulnerable kids and offer them money and satiate their curiosity while he sexually molested them and introduced them to alcohol paving way for a lifetime of further abuse.
No one probably expected that the recent seizure of the alcohol shipment in the country will lead to the discovery of this paedophile ring, which as reported may be connected to international child pornography groups too.

Often in our society when an abuse case is reported, people like to point fingers at the parents and find fault with their parenting.

I think we must not do so this time. Let us behave differently this time, because it is perhaps time for us to take collective responsibility for failing to protect the future generations of this nation.
This is the country which united under ‘Wathan edhey gothah’ , a political awakening and fought to bring a new dawn of democracy to this nation.
The same country is now crying out for a wider social awakening which must aim to root out those structures which are destroying this society.
Those who are attempting to climb off the ladder of poverty and reach affluence by the sale of drugs, alcohol, by abuse of our children, must be brought to face justice and pay the price for committing such crimes. We must have zero tolerance towards criminals of any form, those who are leading such organised crimes and those who are doing their dirty work in the forefront must be exposed and given the necessary punishment as stated by the law.

At the same time we must use this moment to reflect on the social issues that challenge the country.
For how long will parents and children co-habit in 12’ by 8’ rooms, have the streets as their living rooms, beg for little luxuries of life and compromise their virtues and morals to exist competently with the rich and the affluent?

Money has been spent on campaigns in Maldives to protect children and their rights. Perhaps it is also time for those involved in these programs to once again question why this happened and implement mechanisms that will help protect our children from vultures such as this 38 year old criminal.

We failed this time, with these children but let us hope this does not happen again. Let us hope we can help these children to heal the deep stabs inflicted by this despicable man. The crime he committed against these 35 (or more!!) children has created a deep wound in our conscience and we must find the time and heart to think and act such that no person will ever dare do something of this nature ever again in our country.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

Absolutely Shocking! Us Maldivians are simply going to wake up tomorrow and go, Oh well, life goes on!

Anonymous said...

Not only this time we failed but over numerous times.

When we were child we heard about Naseem Sir raping and abusing little girls.

Then came the case of a female teacher abusing little boys.

How many thine youths or adults has gang raped a child.

there are numerous cases. What is Child welfare Department doing? Taking our/public money and doing nothing to protect our children. Have they ever investigated how many street children are living in the country. Have they ever talked to them and conducted a survey to find out what sort of criminal activities they are exposed to?

I would say all the senior staffs/top management staff should be fired from the Ministry, for failing to protect over the past decades.


How many times we have to fail to to learn something.

Anonymous said...

Dear Naaz
We live in sad times. What is democracy to me if my nation is a buch of drug addicts. What is democracy for me if the grand fathers uncles prey on innocent little children. What is democracy for me if there is no justice system and not enough space to lock up the criminals. What is democracy if the human rights body is only concerned about the rights of those who violated it in the first place. What is democracy for me if you dont get your honest share of this land. Dear God dont let our sins affect these innocent children.
GOVERNMENT MUST LOCK UP THIS MAN AND ALL OTHERS WHO PREY ON OUR CHILDREN. COME OUT ON THE STREETS AND DEMAND IT!

Anonymous said...

everythings taken at face value in a society where money is everything.
like "drugs dont work" said this is not the first time.
Politicians dont give a damn about whats happening to children and the weaker people in the society. Look at our new president extravagantly travelling to italy and so forth while male rots.
the new administration doesnt care.
people need to take action.
so much for change, it was a big farce just new faces and its got worse.

naseem sir was let loose and was roaming the streets for a long time. is this justice.

Greg (Accessible Hunter) said...

very powerful post!

Anonymous said...

As anon said the politicians wont do anything about this whole thing in a matter of weeks this whole incident will be forgotten and and in a couple of years the guy will be free to abuse more children.

We should make a demand list and organize protest events to get public attention to the cause. To put pressure on govt and institutions to do every they haven't done to protect from child abuse by pedophiles.

Also there should be a pedophile watch website to reports such people living amongst us to harm children.

Anonymous said...

Maldivians are like ostriches. At the first sign of trouble they will bury their heads and pretend nothing wrong is happening around them. Nice way of dealing with problems, isn't it. This is how we have been trained by Maumoon to behave over the past 30 years -- pretend nothing is wrong and everything will look alright!

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Anonymous said...

Like drugs don't work said... a peadophile watch site would be an amazing start
Personally, I have witnessed this happening to a friend, but there was nothing I could do to help stop the abuse. Why? Because there were no laws protecting the weak. When people like the notorious "Naseem Sir", are freed and heck... given the freedom to open a tuition centre... the top officials who gave him the right should be flogged. For the sake of our children!

Anonymous said...

When it comes to child abuse, Maldivians always think of little girls. So the idea of a boy being molested is unimaginable for most among Maldivians. Imagine how hard it would be for me, if I tried to convince my parents that I had been sexually abused. Upon that, the molester was a trusted friend of my parents who works as the shop keeper in the corner shop, which made him a lot easier to get prays. But it wasn't all these things that primarily prevented me from sharing my story with anyone, but it was the fact that I didn't know what had happened until after 2 or 3 years had passed. At that time I didn't know what to make out of that, I just tried to keep some distance from the that guy. But it's hard in a little island, especially when I had to go to buy some stuff for mum or to the house every now and then. You may think what is preventing me now from sharing the story with my parents now that I'm grown up and fully understands what happened. Well, that guy refined later (as far as I know), and I don't have the guts to admit to anybody openly that I had been molested. Besides what's the point of breaking the secret, I can't undo my past and I have accomplished many things in my life.

muiz said...

Great post Naaz! I cannot agree more with your views on this extremely abhorrent situation!We have got to start working now, in a very meaningful way, to address this issue.

Anonymous said...

That was a shocking news for me too. as you have said lets behave better this time, lets look at he bigger picture this time than magnifying towards one side of the story. when you read this please do bear in mind that im not taking the side of the molester. Do you think sentencing him for life time in jail would solve the issue and the rest of the molesters would stop it? i think anyone should be given the chance to rehabilitate, live normal, today i have not heard a single person talking about this, those 'someone' needs help, how do we know that they have been crying about the URGE that they have, they too might want to stop this but, is there ANY place that they can get help confidentially, (i know most of you would say that they could have prayed and have faith in god) BUT still we are all human beings. why do people have high blood sugar when there is a simple solution for it - not to eat and drink too much of sweets. IM NOT TAKING HIS SIDE. im also a girl who has been ......by an uncle, neighbor and a father this still haunts me, im married i have no confidence on anything that i do, i haven't talked about this to anyone except for myself, its very very hard, to brain storm for my self, i still don't know why i haven't talked to anyone regarding this, may be i still dont trust people, thinking that they might judge me, i understands the feeling of being a victim. but i want to share my thoughts with all of you too.